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Audrianna J. Gurr May 14, 2026 Before You React, Check Your HALTS A Simple Tool That Endures Hungry, angry, lonely, tired, and sad are not small states. They shape how we think, cope, and connect. One of the simplest tools I learned early in my career has also been one of the most enduring. It came from addictions work, but over the years I have found myself using it far beyond that setting, with clients, in relationships, in parenting, and in my own life. Because while it may have been...
Audrianna J. Gurr April 9, 2026 The Stomach Ache of Uncertainty A gentle reminder: anxiety often asks us to solve what has not happened yet. This piece offers a way back to what is here now. Not knowing what the test result will say. Not knowing how the conversation will go. Not knowing whether the call will come back. Not knowing what the decision will be. Not knowing how things will unfold in your family, your work, your body, your relationships, or the wider world. There is a lot of this...
Audrianna J. Gurr February 26, 2026 Menopause, Mental Health, and the “Wait… Is It ADHD?” Moment Lately I’ve been hearing a version of the same question from so many smart, capable women: ‘What is happening to my brain?’ ‘I can’t focus like I used to.’ ‘I’m more reactive, more anxious, more scattered… more me, but also not me?’ If you’ve had that thought….welcome. You’re not alone, and you’re not ‘being dramatic.’ There’s a growing body of research and clinical conversation pointing to...