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Audrianna J. Gurr August 20, 2026 We Were Taught to Be Good Patients. Menopause Is Teaching Us to Get Loud. At the end of June, I attended Menopunkapalooza in Portland, Oregon, not simply as a participant, but as a mental health provider offering information and resources at the Menopunks Peri/Meno Resource Fair. I arrived with two posters, years of professional experience, a book shaped by research and the voices of more than 100 women, and my own lived understanding of how disruptive...
Audrianna J. Gurr June 18, 2026 The Concert That Got Me Thinking I was at an outdoor concert with a friend I’ve known for decades, surrounded by people from all walks of life enjoying an evening of live music. I found myself admiring the outfits, the snatches of conversation, and the easy camaraderie of humans gathered together. And then I noticed something else. Women kept apologizing for simply existing and moving through shared space. “I’m sorry, can I have a chair?” “Oops, I’m sorry, can...
Audrianna J. Gurr May 14, 2026 Before You React, Check Your HALTS A Simple Tool That Endures Hungry, angry, lonely, tired, and sad are not small states. They shape how we think, cope, and connect. One of the simplest tools I learned early in my career has also been one of the most enduring. It came from addictions work, but over the years I have found myself using it far beyond that setting, with clients, in relationships, in parenting, and in my own life. Because while it may have been...